I think any media being sexist/offensive isn't a big deal, and the free market will adapt to phase out offensive content.
Certainly that's one possibility. And the free market tends to either follow or lead consumers, and since this is a topic consumers and creators are discussing, such discussions are influencing the market. Nobody in this thread is advocating censorships or even boycotts to artificially manipulate the market (and technically, even boycotts are part of the dynamics of the market).
Since this is a game development site, alot of us are discussing this from the side of developers - how do we adapt to give the consumers what they want? Part of business is trying to predict trends before they arrive, so your products are ready when they are wanted. If we start making a game project today, it won't be ready for another two years or more.
To say "the free market will adapt" is failing to recognize that the consumers are part of the free market, so some sub-portion of the market discussing and deciding what they want is valid and helpful. Doing so publicly helps content creators know where that sub-portion of the market is.
Likewise, saying "the free market will adapt" is failing to recognize that the content creators are part of the free market, so them discussing and deciding what they should create next is valid and helpful.
Telling consumers not to discuss what they want, and telling content creators not to discuss how to refine their craft, is trying to prevent the free market from adapting. And when markets adapt, often time the previous state of the market still sticks around as a sizable niche market anyway (just as before the market adapts, the forerunners are the niche that leads the market).
"The market will adapt" argument only works when arguing against something outside of the market (like the government) trying to influence it artificially. Which nobody in this thread is suggesting, as far as I've seen.
Anita seems to be a professional victim.
I don't disagree with that (though I do disagree with the stock phrases people are using - it's like they can't come up with their own opinions). I haven't seen enough of her stuff to make an reasonable opinion of her motives or even opinions.
Simply by mentioning her you're furthering her cause, and most of your posts mention her.
This entire thread mentions her - her comments are the topic of discussion. I'm not going to call her "she-who-must-not-be-named", and neither am I going to refuse to discuss intellectual points raised, even if they don't come from someone recognized as an intellectual.
She raises some points - whether they are good points or not, we ought to consider those points and discard what we think is wrong, and accept what we believe to be correct. Just as I do with every technical article I read, every news report, every programming tutorial, every forum post. I seriously don't care about the motives behind it, only whether there is a shard of truth about it.
It's only when people hold her up as a hero, or burn her at the stake, that things become a problem. I'm doing neither. Most of this entire thread is doing neither. If she gets attention from this thread, I don't care - we can still pan through her thoughts and separate the gold from the mud.
If someone I hate says something that I know to be true, I'd be pretty dumb to reject the truth because I hate the person saying it (easier said than done, when emotions get involved).
Likewise, if someone I admire says something that I know to be false, It'd be foolish of me to accept the falsehood just because I admire the person (again, easier said then done).
I think an easy test to see whether I'm swallowing falsehoods or rejecting truths purely because I like/dislike someone, is by asking myself "Am I rejecting/accepting everything she's saying?", because it's very unusual for 100% of what someone says to be true, or 100% of what someone says to be false; and I don't want to throw out the baby with the bathwater - unless I'm making an intentional decision to knowingly discard the half truths with half falsehoods together.
To choose a side in this debate is stupid. There are true things to learn on both sides - the only reasonable course of action (from where I'm sitting) is to ignore the entire debate or discuss the debate with people willing to look at it rationally. It's the same kind of stupidity that makes people assume that all democrats are dumb, or all republicans are stupid. The world just isn't that simple, and to brush it that broadly is the easy way out, instead of spending the time to consider arguments on their own merit rather than the merit of the person speaking them.
Whether she is a drama queen or not, whether she has integrity or not, whether she's honored her crowdfunding promises or not, I honestly don't care. All I care about (as far as this thread is concerned) is my game design craftsmanship, my potential customers, and also the state of the culture I live in.
(sorry for my long-winded posts. I lack skill in being succinct - definitely an area I need to improve in)