On a separate note, it appears Feminist Frequency is tackling both sexism and violence. It appears that Anita is covering sexism and McIntosh is covering violence. McIntosh tweeted this yesterday:
The positive reviews of Hotline Miami 2 are depressing & continue the cavalier celebration of violence that infects games writing & culture.
And he's free to hold and express this opinion. I don't particularly share in it, but hey, that's a free society.
Since it cuts both ways, I'll point out though that he's missing the same point here that so many of Sarkeesian's critics do: Like it is not her role to comment on the design qualities or funness of games, it is not the role of a game reviewer to comment on whether its violent content is a cavalier celebration of violence -- its the role of a game reviewer to comment on those design qualities and funness that Sarkeesian is free to ignore.
And someone already pointed out that a "sexist game" is sexism. A violent game is not violence.
How is that the case? Violence is games is violence in games. Sexism in games is sexism in games.
Games are part of actual, real-life culture -- increasingly moreso. I think everyone here would agree with that statement. Therefore both violence and sexism in games is violence in sexism in culture. The question then becomes how does violence or sexism leap from culture (how we perceive the world around us) to society (how we interact with the world around us). More on this thread in the next response.
No matter how much violence is in a book, it's never actually going to attack me (not counting paper cuts).
No matter how much sexism is in a book, it's never actually going to objectify you.
rhetorical -- the book itself does not have to commit the act (to be fair, this is rhetoric in both counts).
The difference though, is that violence is a conscious, physical act that comes into being by the commission of the act against the flesh and blood of a person. Sexism and other isms, though, are often unconscious, immaterial (psychological, spiritual, political) acts that come into being almost by their expression alone. Its true that in either case of violence or sexism there is a final step which visits its consequence on an individual -- but there is a difference still: as a conscious act you must in some way overcome your intellect in order to commit violence against someone, but as an unconscious act, your intellect is no barrier for you to commit sexism and other isms against someone -- you have to first elevate the way you perceive and process sexism and other isms to an intellectual level before you will reflect upon it in the same way you would reflect upon violence before committing it.
Societies laws and generally-accepted standards of conduct send a clear message that real-life violence is something to weighed with care, but this is not so clearly the case with sexism and other isms -- those who engage in it, consciously or unconsciously, are repeatedly defended and given benefit of the doubt and often see reward perhaps not because of their sexism, but certainly in spite of it. Thus, there is little societal incentive for people to reflect upon the ways they perpetuate sexism and other isms.
If a book fails the Bechdel test in a major way -- say there's 10 majorly fleshed out male characters, but females only appear as side-characters -- then that's probably unintentionally a byproduct of the author's unconscious sexism, and arguably could be called a sexist book.
I don't think a book would unintentionally flesh out characters without realizing they're male/female.
That's not the point -- the point is that the author might have subconsciously ignored the female characters. Our culture tends to place a higher value on the words and achievements of men than of woman. Thus, if you want the words and achievements of characters in your fiction to hold weight and command attention, you might subconsciously assign them to a male character rather than a female one. Then this becomes part of the feedback loop, which echoes again that its men who do important things, and women who, when their jealousies or other negative traits aren't subverting those men, play a supporting role at best.
There was a study I read recently about how people rated their college instructors -- and how female teachers were perceived as less competent and given more critical feedback that often cited commonly-held negative personality traits about women, but male teachers were perceived as more competent and given praising feedback that often cited commonly-held positive personality traits about men. In short, the male teachers were perceived as competent, organized, tough, and fair, while the female teachers were perceived as less competent, disorganized, overbearing, and as playing favorites. So in this study, if I recall details correctly, they conducted online courses where the students never met the teacher in person, but made it appear that the female teacher was actually male, and the male teacher was actually female -- the result was that they still gave feedback in a way that matched the gender they were told -- the male teacher was perceived as less-competent because it was believed he was a female. They also conducted the same experiment with just one teacher, only they were presented as male to half the students, and female to the other half -- and again, feedback on the "male" teacher was positive, and feedback of the "female" teacher was less positive.
That's important -- because it says that our subconsciousness don't just skew in favor of men, but they also skew against women; all things being equal, we assign a positive light to interacting with men, and negative light to interacting with women. That's a double whammy, because we apparently don't even perceive women in a neutral light (this all goes for racism and other isms too). Men get to swim with the current, while women have to swim against it.
If you grow up watching TV and movies where in half of them, the major characters are entirely male, isn't it possible that that's going to instill some form of unconscious bias in you, where you expect (without being aware of it) that protagonists are usually men? And that if you then write a story, you'll most likely, without even thinking about it, write a male protagonist... and you'll be part of that feedback loop where culture propagates and preserves itself.
Is that really so controversial an idea, and hard to even entertain as a possibility?
I think a core piece that you left out is that the media you consumed as you were growing up made male protagonists common because you were watching media that was aimed at you (a young man), and they wanted you to relate more with the characters.. Conversely, there's other media aimed at females that you probably haven't watched, simply because it wasn't aimed at you, where the main characters are mostly female. Of course, no one's clamoring that those are Misandrist.
I've said enough about this point of representation and lack of representation above, so I won't repeat, but this question prompts me to make another point.
You or I might have been well-served by the abundance and variety of male media and male role-models, fictional or otherwise -- women did not entirely lack the equivalent with respect to activities and personalities more stereotypically-aligned to their interests, but certainly did not have the abundance or variety that boys enjoyed. Its ok for there to be things for boys and some different thing for girls (or along any other axis you can think of), that's not inherently sexist. It does start to tread on sexism, though, when it is so overspecialized for one demographic that it becomes actively uncomfortable for those who don't typify the demographic. Since we always had abundance and variety, its hard for males to appreciate when something goes for want -- if we didn't identify with one particular work of media or role-model, we usually had several more to choose from -- If you didn't like Hulk Hogan, maybe you liked Macho Man or Ultimate Warrior instead. For women that was not their experience -- if she she didn't like tennis, who else would a young female athlete have had to look up to 15 years ago? The WNBA didn't come into being until I was a teenager, and in early days was at best an afterthought for any media sports coverage, and more-often mocked and made to be the butt of jokes. There have always been other options for athletic female role models if you looked hard enough, but even today they are fewer and further between than for males.
This leads to why its especially important for men to not be so defensive of our sprawling, multi-million dollar clubhouse -- the women's clubhouse is rather small by comparison. And women aren't there to tear up the place and take over, they just want to participate. Society would be better for it if we just shared the same clubhouse and made room to include everyone, where Suzy can play with trucks and Billy can play house if they like. It doesn't mean that men can't keep doing things that women might likely find unappealing, or vice versa, and all it takes is being a little more civil about the interests we share, or at the very least to stop being so obstinate in denying that there are any problems to speak of. Sexism keeps the clubhouses separate.