Does any one know where I can download DDutils now? Just the .h and .cpp nothing else

ddutil.cpp and ddutil.h come with the dx sdk, look in the include directory of the direct draw samples for ddutil.h, and ddutil.cpp is in found in the source code directories.

ddutil.h:
sdk directory->Samples->Multimedia->Ddraw->include

ddutil.cpp
sdk directory->Samples->Multimedia->Ddraw->src->ddex2