im going to try to get into vr game making and I want the most meltability and not a pain in my ass to code with. would like any insight and help that can be given

Try VRTK, or virtual reality toolkit, for unity.  It's pretty much an out of the box VR editor, with grabbing, teleporting, climbing, running, and even more!  If you need advanced custom mechanics, it won't work too well.  For prototypes, it's the tool of choice.

4 hours ago, UnlovedDolphin said:

to code with

This is not a game design question. Moving to a more appropriate forum.