Yet in those statements you seem to be generalizing just as much as the people you're accusing of generalization.
You write that you're a democrat and that you've never killed a baby. As a platform, the democratic party currently declares that every woman should have access to abortion, and that the party will seek to oppose all laws and policies that impede a woman's access to abortion. If you use the same generalization that leads you to say "Russia is a giant gangster ran state", then by similar reasoning if you're a democrat you want babies to die.
That brings back why so much of partisan politics is so stupid. When it reaches the point of parties all the details are so generalized as to become straw-man arguments. The generalization becomes easy to knock down. Even though both parties agree on 90%, maybe even 95% of the same stuff, both parties focus on the extremes and hyperbole to demonize each other. Party politics by their nature are diluted to the point of making debate and discussion nearly meaningless.