Not wanting to start a new thread on homosexuality that'll eat far to much of my time, I'll drop that issue here and welcome PMs from any community members that wish to continue discussing it in a respectful manner, or who have questions or friendly disagreements about my previous posts in this thread.
My last comment is basically:
In my history here on this forum, and my interactions with everyone who's a part of this community, I don't think I've shown hatred towards anyone (despite some heated debates).
I've tried to carry myself with respect towards the other members here, occasionally failing (mostly due to my arrogance in assuming I know more than others), and I genuinely try to understand and comprehend other people's views, whatever walk of life they come from - I think I do that decently well, seeing that I honestly try to think of every side of a problem (missing a few aspects here and there, but mentally covering the majority).
Some of the people on this site are Muslim. Some are homosexuals. Most are atheists or agnostics. I think we have a few Buddhists as well, and at least one Hindu, a few pagan spiritualists, some new age spiritualists, and several Christians of various denominations.
(I'm personally a Classical Post-trib Pre-mill Victorious-Church Post-denom Charismatic Christian who upholds God-inspired scriptural prominence using the literal-common-sense paradigm - try saying that five times fast! :wink:)
I've never intentionally shown any hatred towards individuals here, and I don't believe I've felt any hatred towards them. Why should I hate them over disagreements in belief?
That'd be stupid and illogical; that'd be the antithesis of reason. Surely the more rational members of this community don't hate me because of my views; nor do I hate gays because of their views. And like I said in my previous post - I'm not disgusted by the act of homosexual sex, it's an intellectual and religious disagreement. Yes, it's a disagreement on a very sensitive issue, touching the core of people's identity and lives, just as atheism intellectually touches the core of Christians' identity and lives, so Christians do need to be careful in how we discuss it but, like every idea, the discussions must occur despite the raw emotions and mistrodden toes.
Maybe I've disrespected other members in past discussions - if so, it's due to my arrogance and self-love of myself, not hatred of them, and certainly not hatred based on their ethnicity or sex life.
Since I've tried to carry myself well, and have done a decent job (I think), I just want to point out that in real life I'm not any different. Me disagreeing with homosexuality as a concept does not mean I'm going around screaming at homosexuals as individuals or dehumanizing their individuality.
Isn't the internet famous for people acting
worse on the internet then they are on real life,
due to anonymity? If what you see here is my worst behavior, you should be able to rest assured that despite my difference in views, no matter how extreme those views are, and no matter how hurtful they may be to those who disagree, in the end, I value life and promote individuality, and honor people's free will to make choices that I personally disagree with.
Free will is a gift God gives me (and gives us all), and something He never violates, so it's something I never want to violate in other people.
(@Gian-Reto: Thank you for your kind post, I didn't get a chance to respond earlier. I enjoyed discussing Islam and Christianity with you earlier in the thread)
The peaceful muslims need to take actions. These 'terrorists' don't work on themselves. They are around us. They are your coworkers, your friends, your family. Any extreme tendencies should be addressed. The less these 'terrorist incidents' are happening in the future, the more likely general public will forget. It won't happen overnight, or in a year, or possibly in 10 years, but if Islam as a religion and community can remain peaceful for a long time, people will no longer have Islamophobia.
While I do think Islam as a religion has parts that promotes violence in its root doctrine (I'm not even talking about ISIS, which is an outlier), I also think an unrelated phenomenon is responsible for part of the violence as well, that shouldn't be overlooked.
I noticed a half-dozen months or so ago, that alot of the European recruits for ISIS are young men recruited via the internet who seem frustrated with life/school/society/whatever. This seems very similar to the profile of young men in the USA who go shoot up schools. In that kind of situation, I think Islam itself isn't the problem, but that ISIS serves as something the young men can latch onto and through which they can vent their frustrations.
Imagine if a large network of non-Islamic anarchists were visibly (and physically) present in the USA, and blowing up banks. I imagine some of the teenagers who shoot up schools would join such a group instead - that is, a group that welcomes them, calls them heroes, trains them how to use weapons, and gives them excitement and a sense of belonging while stimulating and directing their anger and bitterness instead of helping them process it healthily. I think that's what ISIS is to some of these teenagers. It's what some street gangs seem to be - a "family" for those who don't feel like they belong anywhere else; one that helps them refine and direct their anger for the "family's" selfish benefit.
I don't think that's what ISIS is to most of the recruits, though. Nor what al-Qaeda is. But it's one aspect of the ISIS problem, I think, and one that Muslims can't be personally responsible for addressing.