Christians just don't get it. Your position is so ridiculous and indefensible that I can say things like "Well we've never seen anything like that before so it probably isn't true" and still win the argument. Winning an argument or debate isn't 100% about logic. It's about persuasion and rhetoric aswell. Quite frankly, it's easy to win an argument against someone who believes in a story that some Jewish guys made up about a sky God that chose Jews (big surprise) to be His chosen people.
If I made up a story that a 50 armed blue woman created the universe, it would not be up to the opposition to prove that that DIDN'T happen. Of course, they could throw tons of evidence out to disprove it but simply saying "well we've never seen anything like that so it probably isn't true" would do the job. The argument is won by the opposition just because of the ridiculousness of the premise.
Of course, if we were in an official debate, then I'd just lay the smack down on you with the mounds of evidence disproving ghouls, goblins, sky Gods, etc...just for a good show.
Well, for what it's worth, I'm not a Christian. I was raised Catholic, but left the faith for a lot of the reasons hat people have been critiquing religion in this thread, among others. I have no religion, and do not take the tenets of any faith to be factual. So it's not my position that any branch of Christianity, or any faith, is an accurate representation of reality.
Why would you have such wildly different standards for an "official" debate versus a discussion in any other forum? Because we don't have a moderator and a 6-3-7-3-4-6-3 speech time limit structure (including corss-examinations, of course), logical support and evidence become unnecessary? I don't think so-- those are the things that get us closer to the truth and further from unreasoned posturing.
Outside of an "official" debate round, winning is meaningless. Discussion and debate are about using principles of rationality to get closer to the truth in a way that can be supported, critiqued, improved, or invalidated. Persuasion and rhetoric can either increase the precision of your argumentation or obfuscate the lack of it. You, as a human being, have the capacity to understand the difference between logical and illogical. You are therefore charged, if you want to have a meaningful discussion of any issue, contested or not, to employ the former and eschew the latter.
It doesn't matter what position you've taken, the position you're opposing, or who any of the participants are. You used several logical fallacies above, stated that you didn't care that they were fallacies, and that it's OK because people on the opposing side engaged in fallacious reasoning as well. That's hypocritical (fallacies are OK for you, but shred opposing arguments?), and does not advance reason nor humanity.
If you want to say that you think something like, say, speaking in tongues, is not what people claim it is (and I don't buy the phenomenon), there are plenty of reasonable grounds for making such a claim. If you're divinely inspired to speak another language, why do those "languages" seem to always consist of fewer than 5 phonemes, with no tonal variation? You can even engage it on the broadest possible level, questioning the existence and nature of God and the validity of religion (which seems to be your preferred approach, and it's a valid one to use). But you never need to resort to a fallacious and unreasoned approach.