I guess i'm just trying to make myself better by hearing some of your sad stories. So what's the worst thing a girlfriend has done to you when you thought everthing was going about as well as it could possibly be going? My gf went to basically a counseling camp to deal with her personal issues. For the first week she'd call me ever other day or so. then one day she just stopped calling for about a month. After the month she called me and we had a wonderful conversation, over a couple days. Then poof, she disapeared again. It's been almost 2 months now since i've heard from her. Last i heard she was supposed to be home after a month and a half so we're well past that. She just basically abondoned me.. It's the most anti climactic break up i've ever been in. So now.. tell me your really messed up stories so we can all lol at how not dramatic my story was.

A friend of mine just told me about his vacation in Croatia with his (ex)gf. The chick was having her monthlies, so the guy thought he better not go to bed with her. That upsets her that bad that she wanted to dump him on the highway (they traveled in her car). She eventually called the cops, after the guy refused to leave the car. The cops said he have to leave the car, but the girl have to carry home his luggage (lots of sub equipment). So he finds himself in Zagreb, pedestrian and with almost empty pockets. He arrived at home after 2 days, after changing lots of trains and sleeping in train stations. He's wondering if he'll ever see his neoprene stuff again.

Maybe this will cheer you up a bit.

In my 10th year of school, I had introduced my then gf to my parents at the school formal (dance). The night progressed really well, though not without her ex making snide remarks and trying to degrade her. At the end of the night she finally told me that she had gotten back together with her ex a week earlier.

After a month of him treating her like shit, she left him.

Technically she wasn't my girlfriend anymore, but after I broke up with my ex-gf after 8.5 years, she started a relationship with another guy in less than a month. That was pretty painful.

I had been dating this girl for a couple of months, when one day while I'm at her place, someone knocked on the door. She booked it out the door without any explanation, and didn't come back until about two hours later. She explained that it was her ex, and that she had to talk him down from beating me up (this, just after I had gotten my black belt). She assured me that he was just being obsessive and that she told him off, it was over. The next time I see her, she wants to "take a break to figure things out". This should have been my first hint, but I was pretty naive.

A week later she called me up and wanted me to come over. I figured "hmm, okay, I guess she's made up her mind." After a bit of a romp, the next day she had this huge diamond ring on her finger, so I walked away because I new I couldn't handle the situation without blowing up at that point. She calls me later in the day, asking me why I was being such a dick, so I confront her about the ring. She creates this cockamamie story about it belonging to her best friend before the friend supposedly died in a drunk driving accident. I told her I had to think about things for a little bit and ended the call. She called me 15 minutes later and admitted that it was the ex's ring and blah blah blah and he gave it to her that day when she left me in her place for 2 hours, asking her to just wear it without giving an answer yet or some shit. I told her that was it, that I was done, and hung up. She calls back 15 minutes later again, this time crying because supposedly the other guy broke up with her, and "she really thinks she loves me." Boo hoo hoo, I told her I'd never talk to her again.

And I held true to that promise, despite all of the situations in which we ran into each other over the next two years. She even enlisted a classmate of mine to try to "appeal" to me, "hey man, just look at it this way, you don't have to love her, you can just use her for sex!" There was another relationship that ended instantly, but he was kind of useless anyway. It actually helped me get through it at the time, knowing that she was torn up about it, being completely cold towards her, and not caving into her advances.

Looking back now, the entire span of time covering that relationship was a rather hilarious time. It taught me a lot about what I do and do not want in a woman. I haven't been too upset with the small number relationships I've had since then, because I'd rather find the right person than be like half of my friend and be dating someone just because of some fear of being single.

The worst think a gf has done (or any woman can do) to me, is trying to manipulate me through my feelings particulary if they know I'm passing through a moment of weakness. That's something I don't forget, and I certainly don't forgive.

Sadly, that's what most women do. Thus one has to be an garde most of the time and pick very wisely when one is going to let one's feeling flow and how to do it without giving them the impression they can control you.

Quote: Original post by owl
The worst think a gf has done (or any woman can do) to me, is trying to manipulate me through my feelings particulary if they know I'm passing through a moment of weakness. That's something I don't forget, and I certainly don't forgive.

Sadly, that's what most women do. Thus one has to be an garde most of the time and pick very wisely when one is going to let one's feeling flow and how to do it without giving them the impression they can control you.

I concur.

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That sounds almost exactly like my previous gf. Her ex was suicidal. One night he was outside our window listening to us, doing what humans do.. And he told her the next day about how he was on his way to kill himself and was just outside listening. And basically.. she went back to him. I still got to bone her all the time but eventually it wasn't enough to make up for the hurt so I just moved out and didnt talk to her for like a year.

That poor guy, he had it a lot worse than me though. If he was a member of this board he'd tell you. His gf went on spring break for a week with me. The day she comes back he pops up and we're in bed together.. Couple days later he knows it's over him (at least for a few months.)

It's proof though that if you're crazy enough, chicks will come back to you. My friend asked me what he should do when his girl wanted to break up and i was like just go crazy man, it always seems to work. And he did, and it did.. Me, i'm too chill to go crazy. When a girl says she wants to break up, i'm usually just like "ok." Which i then regret like an hour later like "why didnt i at least resist!?"

I just really miss my girl.. I'm mad at her sometimes about this whole thing, but it's not like she was sleeping around while we're togethr and lieing about it. So i guess i forgive her. I think if you saw pictures of her you'd forgive her too haha.

Quote: Original post by bzroom
So what's the worst thing a girlfriend has done to you when you thought everthing was going about as well as it could possibly be going?

Lets see, the worst... well, one ex moved out while I wasn't home one day, and started dating another girl. Probably not the best thing for the ol' self-esteem, especially in my younger, more fragile days.

Not to belittle your experience, but i've never understood the "my girl left my for another girl" story. I could totally live with that, much more so than if she left me for a man. If you wanna go make out with chicks that's coo with me. It'd be even cooler if we could all make out but hey i'll just imagine in the mean time.

It's hurtful for me to imagine her being with another guy. But if i imagine she was with another girl.. i think i actually get turned on a little haha.