How can I get size of used texture memory (memory on video card)?

You can''t. You have to keep track of your memory usage manually.

Since OpenGL is supported on many cards (including non-consumer ones) it doesn''t expose the notion of memory types or usage.

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Look up texture proxies and priorities in gl. These dont give you exact control/info but can give some feedback and input to texture storage.