>> I just wanna know - what is so far the best found method to calculate slip and friction force. This would help me.
i remember a problem in 2nd year physics like this. its about 2/3rds of the way though the book Physics, by Tipler.
all this stuff can be calculated. its appears as though you simply haven't learned enough physics and mechanics to do it correctly yet. which is of course, easily corrected with a little RTFM.
go to your local chevy dealer, go to the parts department, and buy a copy of the "chevrolet power manual". the last chapter is vehicle dynamics, with roll centers, ackerman angles, the whole nine yards. its the kind of info real race teams use.