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Better in what way?
Hence the straw poll. I'm
looking for people who know CA well to voice their
utterly subjective reasons why one end of the state is better.My personal impression is that LA is kind of hollow and soulless and SF is more intimate but that's from about 1 day in each

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No that's all of California! badoom-CH.
I never really liked San Francisco but I'm also not much of a "big city" person. I do like the area though, you've got mountains, some pretty cool beaches (Santa Cruz, Monterrey), close proximity to really great vineyards. You're within a 2-3 hour drive of some of the prettiest coastal driving you'll ever see in the world (Big Sur - Hwy 1).
LA is LA. Weather is awesome, beaches are awesome, tons of stuff to do. My only gripe with LA besides the traffic and crime (which the bay area has its fair share of), is that everyone seems to be working an angle. You're not John the Analyst, you're John "I'm starting my own entertainment company and just doing this 8-5 till I get rich". Truthfully though I always enjoy LA and wouldn't mind living there if I could afford the housing and private school. I'm a beach guy and love to play poker so I'm going to be really biased.
Both places have a ton of stuff to do, both places have a great mix of city, culture, outdoorsy stuff. I think it comes down to what activities you enjoy, what culture you're looking for, and what climate you prefer. In relation to the rest of America, I wouldn't call any big city in California "intimate".