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The worst think a gf has done (or any woman can do) to me, is trying to manipulate me through my feelings particulary if they know I'm passing through a moment of weakness. That's something I don't forget, and I certainly don't forgive.

Sadly, that's what most women do. Thus one has to be an garde most of the time and pick very wisely when one is going to let one's feeling flow and how to do it without giving them the impression they can control you.

Lot's of people here seem to have had some pretty twisted relationships... aren't any couples just honest with each other instead of playing weird games?

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It's hurtful for me to imagine her being with another guy. But if i imagine she was with another girl.. i think i actually get turned on a little haha.

Hehe, yeah, I'd usually agree. But I suppose with the break-up situation already as sh*tty as it already was, at the time it just seemed to me like another kick-in-the-cahones.

Not to mention ammunition for jokes from the other guys.

btw, her particular choice of girlfriend was not the type of girl usually found in most men's threesome fantasies, if you get my meaning.

Yea the leaving while youre away thing sucks. Kinda like what happend to me. Usually when i'm involved with a break up theres at least some kind of dialog. This was more of just a vanishing. So i can feel you on that..

And i think i threw up in my mouth a little with your last comment. :) This other girl i kind of picked up in the mean time is bi. Her and all her lesbian girlfriends are super hot asian chicks.. I must just live in fantasy land.

But as far as like having a connection with someone. Hot asian and bi can't really live up to what i thought i had with the other girl, but it'll do for now.

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Lot's of people here seem to have had some pretty twisted relationships... aren't any couples just honest with each other instead of playing weird games?

My wife and I are open and honest with each other. I think it is a pretty rare thing, which is why I find her to be so awesome. [wink]

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The worst think a gf has done (or any woman can do) to me, is trying to manipulate me through my feelings particulary if they know I'm passing through a moment of weakness. That's something I don't forget, and I certainly don't forgive.

Sadly, that's what most women do. Thus one has to be an garde most of the time and pick very wisely when one is going to let one's feeling flow and how to do it without giving them the impression they can control you.

Lot's of people here seem to have had some pretty twisted relationships... aren't any couples just honest with each other instead of playing weird games?

In this day and age you wont find many "honest" relationships.

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In this day and age you wont find many "honest" relationships.

I'll agree, but I think we should bare in mind that people are far more likely to share tales of bad experiences.

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The worst think a gf has done (or any woman can do) to me, is trying to manipulate me through my feelings particulary if they know I'm passing through a moment of weakness. That's something I don't forget, and I certainly don't forgive.

Sadly, that's what most women do. Thus one has to be an garde most of the time and pick very wisely when one is going to let one's feeling flow and how to do it without giving them the impression they can control you.

Lot's of people here seem to have had some pretty twisted relationships... aren't any couples just honest with each other instead of playing weird games?

In this day and age you wont find many "honest" relationships.

In this day and age? Why is that?

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The worst think a gf has done (or any woman can do) to me, is trying to manipulate me through my feelings particulary if they know I'm passing through a moment of weakness. That's something I don't forget, and I certainly don't forgive.

Sadly, that's what most women do. Thus one has to be an garde most of the time and pick very wisely when one is going to let one's feeling flow and how to do it without giving them the impression they can control you.

Lot's of people here seem to have had some pretty twisted relationships... aren't any couples just honest with each other instead of playing weird games?

In this day and age you wont find many "honest" relationships.

In this day and age? Why is that?

Because people these days are twisted and morally corrupt. Any person in their 70s or 80s will tell you this, and how things have changed.

Hell, I was born in 1987 at the height of the UK's yuppie era and even I think society has gone downhill noticeably in the past few years.

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The worst think a gf has done (or any woman can do) to me, is trying to manipulate me through my feelings particulary if they know I'm passing through a moment of weakness. That's something I don't forget, and I certainly don't forgive.

Sadly, that's what most women do. Thus one has to be an garde most of the time and pick very wisely when one is going to let one's feeling flow and how to do it without giving them the impression they can control you.

Lot's of people here seem to have had some pretty twisted relationships... aren't any couples just honest with each other instead of playing weird games?

In this day and age you wont find many "honest" relationships.

In this day and age? Why is that?

Because people these days are twisted and morally corrupt. Any person in their 70s or 80s will tell you this, and how things have changed.

I do not agree. These days, women can behave as they please without society exerting "moralist" pressure on them. And, that, forces us men to behave as MEN when society doesn't require us to be real men (in order to survive).

The truth is that women wants MEN not weak romantic morons. They don't want just romance, they want it all, in every hole.

Thing which I think is good.

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The worst think a gf has done (or any woman can do) to me, is trying to manipulate me through my feelings particulary if they know I'm passing through a moment of weakness. That's something I don't forget, and I certainly don't forgive.

Sadly, that's what most women do. Thus one has to be an garde most of the time and pick very wisely when one is going to let one's feeling flow and how to do it without giving them the impression they can control you.

Lot's of people here seem to have had some pretty twisted relationships... aren't any couples just honest with each other instead of playing weird games?

In this day and age you wont find many "honest" relationships.

In this day and age? Why is that?

Because people these days are twisted and morally corrupt. Any person in their 70s or 80s will tell you this, and how things have changed.

Hell, I was born in 1987 at the height of the UK's yuppie era and even I think society has gone downhill noticeably in the past few years.

People in their 70's and 80's grew up in a time of rigid gender roles as well as strong ideas about the purpose and value of relationships, and the responsibilities of each person to their partner. Much has changed. People are now primarily interested in finding partners with compatible lifestyle interests. They're less willing to settle and have limited patience for making troubled relationships work, as there is no longer less value in the relationship itself versus what both people get out of it.

Most people still want intimate, lasting relationships. I think society is just trying to feel things out right now and will ultimately settle upon a new norm.