All of my friends at school including myself played violent games. In particular, I remember
this one which I played every day at age 14. The biggest incentive for playing that game was the ability to chop off the other's head, which would make the audience applaud and some gnomish guy enter the arena and kick the head away like a football. It was great fun.
I'm not aware of any of my school friends (or myself) being arrested for decapitating people or any other violence crime later in our lives. Strange, eh?
The media live from making drama and political zealots like picking it up. the most important tool in making drama is delivering deliberately false or misleading information.
Take for example yesterday's report about two three people dying in Germany after the H1N1 vaccination. While the vaccination may be debatable, and while it is probably true that those people died, it does not necessarily mean that they died to the vaccination. And sure enough, the media don't
explicitely say that if you read very carefully.
However, they do publish "died after vaccination" in 2-inch tall letters everywhere. The way it is presented, it means "
died to the vaccination", even if it is not worded that way. 99.9% of the population will read it as that, it doesn't matter whether those people maybe died in a car accident or had a heart attack.
The very same thing happens whenever there's a young adult running amok somewhere. The media are quick to point out that he played Counterstrike or a similar video game.
However, nobody seems to wonder what went wrong in their family, and nobody seems to wonder where teens get a whole bag of guns and ammo from (in particular in countries other than the USA, where even adults can't just buy a gun easily). Nobody seems to think that
this is where things went wrong. Nobody points out that it might be a bit weird for a 15 year old to go to a gun club several times per week, and nobody would dare to suggest that
this might have lowered his inhibition threshold of shooting people. Of course not, because there's a large lobby behind that.
It is my belief that if kids become violent, it's first and foremost a failure of family and society. Some people will turn to weirdos and/or psychos at some point. Some may get violent. Ok, this isn't pretty, but it can happen.
However, the one really scary thing is if nobody sees it and nobody cares either. That's where the failure is.