Quote: Original post by OluseyiQuote: Original post by Anonymous PosterHmm, that's an interesting extrapolation. You consider being offered meat "having your beliefs stomped on," which is inference as to the intent of the other individual. I suppose the problem is that "vegan" is indistinguishable from "vegetarian" for most people, so to them it's not a matter of beliefs/convictions/religion, but simply one of dietary need/choice.
Being a vegan, I'll answer that yes, offering me free meat while knowing that I'm a vegan gives me the right to flame you, because I'm human and thus emotional, and it gets horribly old after a few such offers. Maybe will you do that out of good will, but I don't think it's so hard to understand that I can eventually grow tired of having my beliefs stomped over and over again.
I didn't actually think about that. :-) I was assuming a situation where the "giver" would know the ins and outs of being a vegan but would still offer the vegan some meat "just in case he'd like some". While I can see why that'd be the nice thing to do, for a lot of vegans it's a tad insulting or outright rude and amounts to provocation. It's sort of asking us if we'd like to forget our faith for a moment. Of course and as you mentioned, some vegans are so because of dietary need/choice, and I expect them to be more tolerant to such offers.
I guess the same can be said about free software advocates, though probably to a lesser degree, software being much less fundamental than food.
Thanks for the eye opener though. With time, I got so defensive over this that I didn't even consider that someone could offer me to eat meat out of good will.
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Similarly, for most people Linux is a matter of choice (Open Source attempts to make a rational/pragmatic case for Linux and other such software, in opposition to Free Software, which makes an ideological one).
Understood. I'm certainly not trying to evangelize anyone here. I'm merely stating that maybe those guys got defensive with time. I personally adhere to the ideological side, considering the potential technical benefit as a nice side effect. YMMV.
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By the way, if I offered someone meat and they started to flame me, I'd slap them with it. It's an offer; the civilized thing to do is to decline. Now, if I were to persist/insist/get belligerent, then he'd be within his rights to slap me with... a brussel sprout? [smile]
That's why I said that it gets old after a while. I agree that it's rude and that you don't deserve it (unless you're doing it on purpose), but we all have a breaking point. Declining 10 times a week quickly erodes patience.
As for the violence, we tend to prefer verbal assaults because we're skinny and physically weak. ;-)
Anyway, I'm done with the vegan stuff as it's quite off-topic. Sorry about that.
Yann L: to make sure that I wasn't misunderstood, let me say that I hope you'll find testers for your projects or at the very least people with more social skills than the authors of the replies to your offer. :-)
Hope this helps.